The mirror, the map, & the compass for navigating
desire, attraction, and EVERY kind of intimate relationship in your life.
Welcome to the
INTIMACY
DOJO
A sacred 1:1 training ground to face what’s real in your love life, map what’s actually happening, & leave knowing exactly what to do next.
In each session, turn
RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES
EMOTIONAL CONFUSION
& UNSPOKEN DESIRES
into
FULL-BODY CLARITY
MAGNETIC CONFIDENCE
& EMBODIED RELATIONAL INTELLIGENCE
Using the
7 INTIMACIES FRAMEWORK
& ATTRACTION MAPPING
PROCESS
...a grounded approach to mastering relationships
We identify the core issue, separate story from truth, and map out new possibilities.
Giving you the practical tools, language, and confidence to express your desires and actively create the love life you deserve.
What is
Relational Intelligence?
For EVERY kind
of Intimate Relationship...
Whether you’re solo, dating, partnered, poly, or somewhere in between, Intimacy Mapping is a universal language designed to meet every aspect of your relationship.
1. Single
& Sovereign
​
"Becoming the one before calling in the one"
You’re solo, celibate, or healing—and craving real partnership.
This is your season of excavation, sovereignty,
and becoming magnetic to what’s true.
Common Challenges:
Feeling lost, lonely, or impatient for love
Unsure how to date with purpose
(vs. fantasy or avoidance)
Lingering wounds from past partners or family dynamics
Fear of repeating old patterns
4. Deepening
Union
​
"Choosing each other again & again"
You’re in a stable relationship...but craving more depth, more spark, more soul.
This stage is about reigniting the flame and expanding your capacity to love.
Common Challenges:
Emotional or erotic stagnation
Growing apart or struggling to evolve together
Desire for more play, polarity, or shared vision
Feeling unseen or unexpressed
Over-saturation with each other
2. Dating
& Lovership
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"Navigating chemistry with clarity"
You’re actively dating or connecting—and trying to stay rooted while the butterflies fly.
Attraction is alive. The stakes are higher. But clarity? Sometimes slippery.
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Common Challenges:
Not knowing how to communicate attraction
Situationships, Unclear Containers, & Leaky Energy
Projection, Fantasy, or People-Pleasing
Confusion between chemistry and compatibility
Partner Shopping, Pedestalling, & Dating Fatigue
3. Entering
into Partnership​
You said yes to someone... and something new is forming.
This is where the rubber meets the road: boundaries, devotion, and the art of weaving lives.
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Common Challenges:
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Fear of losing independence or self-identity
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Navigating emotional triggers & attachment styles
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Negotiating needs, desires, & expectations
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Avoiding conflict to “keep the peace”
"Building trust without
losing self"
5. Transitioning
the Relationship
​
"Something's changing... but what?"
You’re at a crossroads.
Something no longer fits—but it’s not yet clear what’s dying, what’s evolving, or what needs to be reclaimed.
Common Challenges:
Ambiguity: stay, go, or transform?
Navigating polyamory, infidelity,
or shifts in intimacy
Guilt, fear, or grief around change
Lack of tools to have honest, loving conversations
6. Uncoupling
& New Directions
​
"Ending with honor, not destruction"
Whether you’re grieving a breakup, completing a chapter, or simply letting go…
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This stage is about closing sacredly and making space for what’s next.
Common Challenges:
Heartbreak, confusion, or emotional closure
Looping in blame or self-doubt
Untangling enmeshment or co-dependence
Difficulty honoring what was without clinging or vilifying
7. Jealousy
Training
​
"An essential skill no matter how conscious you are"
Jealousy isn’t a flaw to fix—it’s a signal to decode.
It shows us our unmet needs, unspoken truths, and sacred boundaries.​
Common Challenges:
Feeling out of control or ashamed of jealousy
Comparing yourself to others and spiraling into lack
Struggling to communicate jealousy without blame or shutdown
Not knowing the root: insecurity, boundary breach, or attachment fear
8. Polyamory
& Open Relating
​
"Buckle up your seatbelts..."
This stage requires radical honesty, mature communication, and relational clarity.
It’s about expanding your capacity for truth, trust, and emotional bandwidth.
Common Challenges:
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Mismatched desires or timelines between partners
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Unspoken rules, unclear agreements
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Avoidant communication
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Jealousy, comparison, or fear of being replaced
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Navigating new relationships while tending to existing ones
9. Attraction
Mapping
​
"It's not about denying the spark, it's about directing it."
You’re feeling something. A pull. A spark. A stirring. But what do you do with it?
This is about learning the language of attraction—so you can honor your desire without distortion, leakage, or shame.
Common Challenges:
Confusing sexual attraction
Emotional or spiritual longing
Feeling guilt or fear around your attraction
Naming or expressing desire without causing harm
Shutting down, suppressing, or over-intellectualizing attraction
1. Single
& Sovereign
​​
​“Becoming the one
before calling in the one.”
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2. Dating
& Lovership
​​
​“Navigating chemistry with clarity.”
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3. Entering
into Partnership​​
​“Building trust without losing self.”
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4. Deepening
Union
"Choosing each other again
& again."
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5. Transitioning
the Relationship
"Something's changing... but what?"
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6. Uncoupling
& New Directions
"Something's changing... but what?"
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7. Jealousy
Training
"An essential skill no matter how conscious you are."
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8. Polyamory
& Open Relating
"Buckle up your seatbelts..."
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9. Attraction
Mapping
"It's not about denying the spark. It's about directing it."
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Ready to Dive In?
These sessions are available as one-off experiences to meet you in real time—and give you the map to move forward.
Available Online or In-Person
Stop Falling in Love.
Rise in Love.​
Your relationship isn't about beating the game,
its about keeping the game going
with a partner that you can enjoy the ride with.
Let me show you how.
See you in the Dojo!
- Ev
What Actually Happens
in a Session?
This is a focused, 90-minute stand alone session designed to bring clarity to one real relationship challenge, question, or desire you’re navigating.